Sanah Helwah Abah!!!

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Assalamualaikum. Lama rasanya x post kt blog ni. Terlalu banyak tanggungjawab yang perlu dilaksanakan sehingga blog sendiri pon x sempat nak lawat. *Busy mengalahkan YB =D Alhamdulillah hari ni sempat luangkan masa sekejap untuk post something sempena birthday ayahanda tersayang. ^_^

Dear abah,

We may not be the perfect sons and daughters, but you are the perfect abah. No man in this world could have been a better abah to us than you were. There may be many great fathers, but there is only one amazing one, you abah! 

Thanks for always loving us, abah. Thank you for each valuable lesson you taught us. Thanks for the inspiration and motivation. 

19.8.2014 ---> Sanah helwah yang ke 56 abah Ab Halim Fauzi bin Che Lah. Semoga Allah terus melimpahkan kebaikan dan keberkatan buat dirimu, dan menghadiahkan syurga dan keredhaanNya sebagai hadiah yang terbaik dan termahal buat dirimu kelak, amin...

Semoga Allah panjangkan umur abah, agar sempat kami semua anak-anakmu ini berbakti dan menjaga abah, sebagaimana abah telah menjaga kami dengan penuh kasih sayang dan ihsan selama ini. 

Izinkanlah kami menjadi anak yang berbakti kepadamu, anak yang tak melupakan kasih sayangmu. Izinkanlah kami untuk membahagiakanmu, meskipun kami sedar itu semua tidak bisa membayar semua yang telah kau berikan dan kami sedar, nyawapun takkan mampu membalas semuanya. 

Kami sayang abah! 

From your little boys and girls who still need you, 

Wafi, Dinie, Faris, Syamimi, Nisrin, Naim, Mirza, Ilman, Aqil, Alia dan Adila. 

We all love you abah!!!

P/S: Terima kasih ummi kerana memilih lelaki itu 27 tahun yang lalu sebagai abah kepada kami anak-anakmu ini. Pandai umi pilih. Heee ^_~

-Cukup Kau untukku-

Sungguh aku cinta padaMu

Dengan setulus hatiku

Tiap saat tiap waktu

Karena sungguh diriMu

Begitu sempurna

Kau lengkapi hidup ini

Dengan kata yang terindah

Tentang cinta...

Ku bisikkan pada angin berlalu

Membawa pergi rindu membara

Ku lakarkan cinta pada langit

Bertintakan awan

Seluruh hidupku

Engkau yang satu hingga matiku

Semua yang ada menjadi saksi

Cukup Kau untukku

Cukup Kau untukku

Wooo... Ku bisikkan pada angin berlalu

Membawa pergi rindu membara

Ku lakarkan cinta pada langit

Bertintakan awan

Wooo... Seluruh hidupku

Engkau yang satu hingga matiku

Semua yang ada menjadi saksi

Cukup Kau untukku

Cukup Kau untukku

Cukup Kau untukku

Ku cinta padaMu

*Currently falling in love with this song. I keep replay it again n again. Heee~ ^_^

Love for the sake of Allah :')

Holiday means attending wedding and walimah here and there.

As I watch the happy ceremony and eveything, sometimes I wonder how two people can bear living with each other for so many years of their lives. In terms of marriage I mean. (Hello I am 23 years old and its normal to start 'analysing' all these). =P

You know especially when things start to change. You cant agree with each other in every single thing. For a couple first years maybe everything is still good and under control. Love is still in the air baby.

But love is something that need hardwork to make it go on and on. Because it is a feeling, and feeling, it changes. If you dont work to keep it, it will fade. There will be times which that happen. Well I am sure of that. When responsibilities are bigger than love. When your financial state might become an issue. Or prioritising your career or other passion doesnt make your partner happy. Or to keep your house well arranged, clean and tidy make you yell to each other. Or maybe both of you have different ideas in raising up your kids and everything. I dont know. Anything may become an issue.

Lets say your wife, that used to be the most beautiful girl (to your eyes at least) is not the same young girl you used to fall in love many years back. She may not have the sweetest smile you used to adore. She may not come out with the brilliant ideas or thoughts that she used to when she was young. She may not read as much books as she used to when you admire her before. She may become fiercer when she become a mother. (Hope i will not be like that). =D You will see the bad and annoying sides of her that you havent seen before. Or maybe life makes her change. Sometimes she cant prioritise you all the times when she has kids to take care of. And sometimes you will be offended for so many things she might do wrong. And sometimes she may make you lose your temper with the non-stop lectures (read : bebel) and many other stuffs.

But one thing that makes you believe that anything for the sake of Allah will work out, is by seeing your parents. How they manage to cope and stick with each other through thick and thin. How they face the obstacles. How they perform their duties and responsibilities at their best. Well at least they try to.

They give and take. They have long lasting friendship that can never be broken. They listen and care.

Seeing both of your parents, makes you believe there is someone, who is a stranger at first, but then can love you forever for the sake of Allah. If you start it only with the based of love and lust, things will not last.

Everything you do because of Allah, with your iman, inshaa Allah, Allah will help you go through it.

But then start educating yourself first before you think about the responsibilities ahead. And love is not everything though.

”Nak bayar susu, pampers anak dengan cinta ke? Bayar bil letrik, air?” (Quoted from married people). ^_^ See. It still needs work okay?

*K tiada niat post entri eww ewww ke apa. Just saying my thoughts. Nampak gaya kena kawen lps posting la. Huuu~

Barakallahulakum my cousin Faidz & Haslah. Jeles rse bila tgok gmbr ni.
Rindu nk kumpul ramai2 dgn family. Huu